Jesus: I Speak to You Again
Chapter 143
The Child and You
A baby needs more than material nourishment; they need the vibrations of love. Feed them with these love vibrations constantly, and interact with them—play, talk, and connect with them as an equal. As I have explained before, now I want to guide you in raising an older child, one who is beginning to feel the influence of the world around them more than that of their parents.
When a child reaches this stage, the authority of the parents can start to fade, and to prevent this from happening, you must be careful not to give the child the impression that you know everything. Let the child explore the world beyond you.
Always maintain a sincere relationship with your child. Never lie or pretend to know something you do not. Be honest, and when you don’t know an answer, tell your child that no human knows everything. Only the Father is all-knowing, and He helps everyone to learn and share what they discover. Explain that each person has different areas of expertise and that sharing knowledge helps everyone grow in understanding. Encourage your child to share what they learn with you, showing them that you value their discoveries. This will foster trust and show the child that their knowledge is important, making them feel valued.
If possible, try to find answers to your child’s questions together. And if you cannot find the answer, follow up and ask them if they’ve had any luck. This type of interaction must be genuine because children can sense when you are asking out of formality and not from true interest.
A relationship built on love from the child’s birth, rooted in the Father’s love, will be natural and enduring. You will relate to your child as equal partners rather than imposing authority simply because you are the parent. Treating the child as a possession rather than a person can harm their development, stifling their free will and independence. Children raised without the love vibrations of the Father may rebel or withdraw, especially as they see other children expressing themselves more freely.
Don’t break the child’s spirit; instead, help them grow as a son or daughter of the Father, shaping their character with love and respect. Share your experiences with them, not just through words but through your actions. Your daily living, influenced by the Father’s love, will speak louder than any lecture. If your words don’t align with your actions, children will quickly notice, and a wall of distrust will form between you and them.
A child raised in love will seek out greater truths, walk the path of life with confidence, and be free from the restrictions of rituals and false teachings. They will have a growing desire for deeper experiences of the Father’s love, sharing that love through worship and service to their brethren.